Want to know an easy
way to spot the Signs she’s Flirting with you? I’m about
to tell you.
Now, I don’t believe
in waiting for signs before you take action. When considering approaching
a woman the only thing you need to be thinking is: “I am interested in
her and want to know more.”
BUT once you get
into a conversation with a woman, it can be difficult for men to spot the
female flirting signs.
she is NOT interested:
-Body shifted away from you
-Looking around the room while you are talking
-Nodding and instead of responding
-Giving 1 word responses
-Being overly friendly
If you see these
signs, RUN. Get away and get over this woman. She’s not into you.
Now onto signs
you should be looking for.
Here Are 13 Signs she’s
flirting with You:
1. A smile.
This is the simplest flirt there is, and the hardest to misinterpret. If a woman
smiles at you from across the room, a “slow smile” not a nervous or forced smile.
This means that she wants you to talk to her.
2. The hair
twirl. This is something that I do when I am into a guy and want him
to be attracted to me. I twirl my hair, touch my lips and bat my eyes. All very
feminine flirty things that, as women, we feel will make a man turned on and
more attracted to us.
“Wardrobe Change”. It’s definitely a sign when she returns from
the bathroom with new lip gloss applied, her hair tossed and a one less button
4. A cry for
help. “If a woman asks you for assistance in any way, such as, ‘Excuse
me, could you help me figure out the tip on this bar tab? I’ve never had to pay
one before,’ she’s flirting with you. I have definitely done this one many
times. Asked for help when it was not needed just to catch someone’s
attention. “Can you help me lift this heavy chair for me?”. I do Yoga and
weight training and could totally lift it myself but why do it yourself when
there is a cute guy that could do it for you.
5. Touch. Lightly
touching you while talking is a BIG SIGN!!! If I find several ways to
slightly touch you or get close, I’m into you. BUT if I freely and
comfortable touch you multiple times throughout our conversation, I see you as
a “friend” or “non-threatening”. Not a flirting sign. The slight differences in
flirty touch vs. friend touch are so discrete; it’s hard for many men to tell
the difference. I talk about this more in depth in my program what’s
Inside A Woman’s Mind with 3 of my girlfriends.
Language. Twisting my body away from you but still engaging in
conversation. When I flirt, I too want to be mysterious. So I’ll go back
and forth between facing you and not facing you while in conversation. This
will also help me calm down and get more comfortable.
When you notice a woman doing this and want to determine if she is interested,
pay attention to the way she responds to you in conversation. If she responds
with 1 word answers, then twists her body away, she is NOT interested. BUT if
she engages you and responds with complete answers and then turns away or asks
you a question, she is into you.
Tossing her hair, twists her pinky ring, or snaps her hairband, this counts as
flirtatious behavior if and only if (and these are big “ifs” and “onlys”) she
maintains uninterrupted eye contact. If she keeps glancing away, she may very
well be repulsed by you and wants to get away as soon as possible. When I am
attracted to someone I stumble over my words and fidget. We all get nervous.
If she’s trying to get close to you, she’s flirting! If she’s constantly moving
away, she’s sending you a subtle signal to back off, she’s not into you that
way. A woman will get closer to you in proximity. You may even
get the feeling she is hovering around you or trying to eavesdropping on your
conversations. Women who do not want to be around you will physically back away
from you. If she is into you she will lightly touch you in some way.
banter and laughing. She will be laughing at all of your jokes…
even the unfunny ones (another powerful flirting sign). When
I am attracted to a guy, I will be fascinated by anything that comes out of his
mouth. Remember, if a woman is NOT interested she will give you single-word
answers and nod. If you have a woman engaged but you can tell she is slightly nervous,
it’s a sign she is into you.
10. Lack of
inhibition. This is a tricky one because most women who are that
comfortable with you right off the bat are usually not attracted to you.
Therefore they may freely reveal lots of private information with little worry
because there is no attraction to be lost. It depends on the conversation. In
this case I would need to hear more about what information was actually
exchanged to give a good assessment as to whether she was interested.
Interview Time. She’ll ask you questions about yourself.
What is your name? How old are you? What do you do for a living? Many men think
that questions are a sign of testing, when in fact they are a sign of
interest. She’s asking you questions because she wants the full picture.
REMEMBER: Giving responses are important BUT the way you respond will dictate
her attraction levels. I talk more about this in How To Become A
Man Women Want, Step 1. Click Here To Read More…
& Digs. You know how people say that loving and hating
someone is pretty much the same thing. Well the same is true with compliments
and insults. If she’s complimenting you a lot or giving you digs like “oh
you’re a player” or “I bet you like that girl”, SHE’S FLIRTING!!
About The Future. She’s definitely flirting with you if she
start to come up with future plans. For instance, she’ll mention a band
that she wants you to see. Or she’ll literally say, what are you doing next
weekend? When I am flirting with a guy, I want to seal the deal and lock him
down. BUT if he eagerly responds to my invites, I’m over it. I
remember when I was doing a TV show with Jennifer Love Hewitt and we had a “female
date”, she turned me off by over inviting me to things. I could tell she
liked me because she invited me to do something that coming weekend. That made
me happy but I said to her “l’ll check my calendar and let you know”.
Before the night was over, she had invited me to 3 more things.
Marni: I wanted to add in 1 more that I discovered recently.
for validation or as I like to refer to it “impressing a guy with
facts about me”. I almost kicked myself when I started noticing that I
was doing this. It was almost as if I was screaming “I have value!!!!
Like me, like me, like me”. I honestly wanted to kick myself for doing it
but it just kept on happening.
This is a huge sign
that you have created attraction. When a woman starts to validate herself
to you, slipping in facts about why she’s great or what she has accomplished.
It’s a sure fire sign that you have ignited the fire within! You have her
bubbling and it’s showing through her nerves and desire for you to pay
attention to her and think she is great.
So, if you want to attract women and start talking to them
and they start bragging about something off topic from what you are discussing,
she is attempting to show value. A.K.A She’s attracted and totally into
you!!! At this point you could literally do anything you want
with her and she’ll be more than happy to do it.
Instead what you
want to do is create a clear picture of all the qualities that you want in a
woman or women and send those thoughts into the world so that the Law of Attraction
can attract her or them to you. For more information and tips on online dating
please visit my site. www.winggirlmethod.com
13 Signs of She Is Flirting With You