To some people, a family Constitution is not a big deal. However, to others, it is as important as memorizing America’s national anthem and pledge of loyalty. I believe I no longer have to explain what a family constitution is. I gather you already know what you are entering when you saw the title of this article. But, in case you are still in the dark, a family constitution is basically a set of values, principles, and goals for one’s family members to observe, practice, and uphold. Do you want to ensure one for your own family? Follow these steps and you are good to go.
Get a family attorney
This is the first and the most important factor in creating your own family constitution. A family attorney will guide you through everything you need to do and all the permits you need to acquire in drafting and legalizing it. You have to be very careful in choosing your attorney though. You see, in hiring a family attorney, you are also inviting him or her into your family. You need to make sure you are not inviting a psycho or a jerk for that matter.
Plan your constitution
You can’t just do this rashly. When you say plan, you need to plan. You have already hired a family attorney. Take advantage of the services he or she has to offer. it is a given that you and your attorney has to do the planning, but you also have to get the idea and opinion of the rest of your family members. You do not want to look like a tyrant in front of your own children now, do you?
Make sure you finish it
You have to commit to this. This is not one of those personal projects that you can leave behind whenever you feel like it. Drafting a constitution involves a lot of work and money. A family attorney alone is a very expensive commodity. There is also this one important factor. This will bring good to your family. This is probably one of things you do for your family that will genuinely benefit everybody. And mind you, this is not only applicable in your present family. It can even reach the future generations. Come to think of it. This is like your legacy to your future grandchildren. Isn’t that neat?
Make your family members embrace it
Unfortunately though, your family constitution will not reach even the next generation if you do not make your immediate family embrace it as their own. Remember that this is supposed to be your legacy. This is supposed to guide the future generations of your family. But how are you going to do that if you can’t even convince your children to love the constitution you have drafted for them? I believe that this task is the most challenging task you need to overcome before you can be assured that the constitution you have created can really last for generations. Can you live up to the challenge?
How to Ensure a Successful Family Constitution